Date Ideas

At-Home
Night Out
Local Adventures

Cooking at Home

Make a simple meal together, not just eat together.

Things We Liked Most

  • Easy, relaxed, and budget-friendly

  • Great conversation flow while cooking

  • Builds teamwork without pressure

Things to Consider

  • Pick a simple recipe

  • Plan cleanup together

Things to Avoid

  • Complicated meals

  • Phones on the counter

Pro Tips

  • Put on a playlist from the year you met

  • Choose a theme (Italy, Mexico, Caribbean)

Try This If…

  • You want a cozy night with low effort but high connection

Game Night with Another Couple

Laugh, play, and connect with friends in real life.

Things We Liked Most

  • Fun energy with other adults

  • Light competition sparks laughter

  • Easy way to meet new friends

Things to Consider

  • Invite couples with similar energy

  • Keep games simple

Things to Avoid

  • Long rule explanations

  • Competitive trash-talk

Pro Tips

  • Choose games that play in under 20 minutes

Try This If…

  • You want connection + community

Wii / Active Game Night

Light movement and big laughs — no gym clothes required.

Things We Liked Most

  • You move without “working out”

  • Lots of laughter

  • Playful, youthful energy

Things to Consider

  • Clear space to avoid tripping

  • Keep rounds short

Things to Avoid

  • Over-competitive play

  • Standing too close

Pro Tips

  • Bowling and tennis are easiest

Try This If…

  • You want something fun and lighthearted

Staycation Weekend

Turn home into a mini-getaway without packing a bag.

Things We Liked Most

  • No travel stress

  • Total control over the schedule

  • Deep rest + reconnection

Things to Consider

  • Plan the big pieces: meals, activities

  • Tidy the house beforehand

Things to Avoid

  • Errands, chores, or family interruptions

Pro Tips

  • Treat it like a real getaway — dress up one night

Try This If…

  • You want to reconnect but can’t travel right now

Movie Night at Home

Cozy up, press play, and relax together.

Things We Liked Most

  • Comfort + nostalgia

  • No crowds, no noise

  • Easy way to unwind

Things to Consider

  • Pick a movie before starting

  • Create a cozy setup

Things to Avoid

  • Phones

  • Heavy, complicated plots

Pro Tips

  • Choose a movie from your early dating years

Try This If…

  • You want a calm, low-energy evening

People-Watching From Afar

Sit back, sip something, and make up stories together.

Things We Liked Most

  • Playful and creative

  • Sparks interesting conversation

  • Zero prep

Things to Consider

  • Choose a safe, busy location

Things to Avoid

  • Staring or being too obvious

Pro Tips

  • Sit in your car with coffee for privacy

Try This If…

  • You want a quirky, fun, free date

Dinner at a Restaurant

Easy, classic dinner out — without talking about bills or stress.

Things We Liked Most

  • Predictable, easy, relaxing

  • New scenery boosts conversation

Things to Consider

  • Choose a quieter restaurant

  • Make reservations if possible

Things to Avoid

  • Talking about bills, kids, or stress

  • Rushed service times

Pro Tips

  • Sit on the same side of the booth occasionally

Try This If…

  • You want simple quality time

Comedy Show

Let someone else do the talking while you both laugh.

Things We Liked Most

  • Shared laughter = instant connection

  • Great mood-reset

Things to Consider

  • Check the comedian’s style first

Things to Avoid

  • Front-row seating if you don’t want interaction

Pro Tips

  • Grab dessert afterward to decompress and laugh again

Try This If…

  • You both need a light, fun night out

Karaoke Night

Lean into silly, sing badly, and have a great story later.

Things We Liked Most

  • Silly, freeing, and bonding

  • Private rooms lower embarrassment

Things to Consider

  • Pick a few songs in advance

Things to Avoid

  • Loud bars if you prefer low-key

Pro Tips

  • Duets are always a win

Try This If…

  • You want to shake off a stressful week

Theater / Play

Dress up a little and share something meaningful.

Things We Liked Most

  • Thought-provoking and elegant

  • Makes the night feel special

Things to Consider

  • Parking and timing

  • Length of the show

Things to Avoid

  • Very long, abstract productions

Pro Tips

  • Dress a little nicer — elevates the experience

Try This If…

  • You want a polished, meaningful night out

Concert Night

Hear the music you grew up with — live and loud.

Things We Liked Most

  • Music builds emotion + memories

  • Easy way to feel young again

Things to Consider

  • Venue seating comfort

  • Noise level

Things to Avoid

  • Standing-only shows (unless you love that)

Pro Tips

  • Choose an artist from “your era”

Try This If…

  • You want a nostalgic and energetic evening

Pottery / Creative Class

Get your hands messy and make something together.

Things We Liked Most

  • Hands-on and calming

  • You leave with something memorable

Things to Consider

  • Some classes book quickly

Things to Avoid

  • Highly technical workshops for beginners

Pro Tips

  • Book a weekday class — fewer crowds

Try This If…

  • You want something creative and different

Walking Date

A simple walk that turns into a real conversation.

Things We Liked Most

  • Simple, healthy, relaxing

  • Conversation flows naturally

Things to Consider

  • Choose a scenic, safe path

Things to Avoid

  • Steep or uneven trails

Pro Tips

  • Hold hands for part of the walk

Try This If…

  • You want connection + movement

Gym Date

Move your bodies, cheer each other on.

Things We Liked Most

  • Encouraging each other feels great

  • Endorphins boost mood

Things to Consider

  • Pick shared exercises

  • Avoid peak hours

Things to Avoid

  • Over-pushing each other

Pro Tips

  • Finish with a smoothie together

Try This If…

  • You want a health-minded date

Mini-Golf

Light competition, easy laughs, zero pressure.

Things We Liked Most

  • Light competition

  • Easy to laugh and be playful

Things to Consider

  • Evening crowds

  • Weather if outdoors

Things to Avoid

  • Hard, fast play — keep it fun

Pro Tips

  • Bet something silly on the winner

Try This If…

  • You want nostalgic, simple fun

Volunteering Together

Do something good for others — and your relationship.

Things We Liked Most

  • Deep meaning + connection

  • Gives you something positive to talk about afterward

Things to Consider

  • Choose a cause you both care about

Things to Avoid

  • Physically demanding tasks unless you're comfortable

Pro Tips

  • Start with one-hour commitments

Try This If…

  • You want connection built through purpose

Shooting Range

A focused, different kind of date you’ll both remember.

Things We Liked Most

  • Focus and teamwork

  • Unique and memorable

Things to Consider

  • Noise level

  • Comfort with firearms

Things to Avoid

  • High-pressure instruction settings

Pro Tips

  • Choose a weekday for lower crowds

Try This If…

  • You want something bold and different

Car Date

Drive, grab something simple, and talk in private.

Things We Liked Most

  • Private, nostalgic, simple

  • Zero planning

  • Naturally intimate

Things to Consider

  • Pick a safe, pleasant location

Things to Avoid

  • Messy food

  • Busy parking lots

Pro Tips

  • Bring blankets and watch a movie on a tablet

Try This If…

  • You want a cheap, cozy, low-energy date